For someone who is in survival mode within an abusive relationship, it takes a lot of courage and self-awareness to reach a point of acceptance – to be able to take off one’s rose-colored glasses and see the situation for what it truly is. Only when you finally accept the fact that you do not really matter to your abuser, and that they would continuously disrespect your boundaries if you allow them, will you be able to realize how unhealthy and wrong it is to hold on and anchor your worth on that person.
But it does not stop with the realizations. You have to make important decisions. Will you choose that person again over yourself? Will you cave in and allow them to be a part of your life again? Or will you finally and completely let go knowing that you don’t need and want them in your life? In this episode, let’s talk about some of the reasons and effects of hoovering, and how our awareness of these things can help us move forward in the right direction!
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For someone who is in survival mode within an abusive relationship, it takes a lot of courage and self-awareness to reach a point of acceptance – to be able to take off one’s rose-colored glasses and see the situation for what it truly is. Only when you finally accept the fact that you do not really matter to your abuser, and that they would continuously disrespect your boundaries if you allow them, will you be able to realize how unhealthy and wrong it is to hold on and anchor your worth on that person.
But it does not stop with the realizations. You have to make important decisions. Will you choose that person again over yourself? Will you cave in and allow them to be a part of your life again? Or will you finally and completely let go knowing that you don’t need and want them in your life? In this episode, let’s talk about some of the reasons and effects of hoovering, and how our awareness of these things can help us move forward in the right direction!
Healing Points of This Episode:
Words of Healing:
Resources Mentioned:
Follow Regina Marie: